As the Enneagram’s popularity has increased, there’s a growing tendency to distill the system into flatland descriptions of behaviors.
This does an injustice to a system that is surprisingly accurate in identifying tenacious mental, emotional and behavioral patterns. The Enneagram gets to inner motivations.
Each Enneagram style has a core idealization, avoidance and protective defense mechanism.
But cognitive understanding isn’t enough. Our somatic, emotional and social conditioning is strong.
We need to practice something new as we can’t think our way into new ways of being.
People read all sorts of books and take courses on everything from leadership to self-development to spirituality to Integral Theory to new approaches like Brene Brown’s groundbreaking work on shame and vulnerability, but often don’t get past cognitive understanding of the material.
Over 10 years ago, I did a deep dive into the Enneagram Centers of Head, Heart and Body as I was curious WHY we can know ABOUT something new yet struggle with sustained change.
The approaches to teaching the Enneagram seem partial. Furthermore, teachings on the BODY center felt mechanical to types 8/9/1 who actually inhabit this center.
The Centers Approach fundamentally altered the way I work on myself, coach clients, do spiritual guidance work with them and teach the Enneagram.
For the first time, I am offering the Centers Approach online. This 101 course is designed for people new to the Enneagram, coaches, teachers, counselors and anyone who desires to incorporate Enneagram learning into your personal work with yourself and others.
Yet, cognitive learning isn’t enough. You will be given practical tools and meditations focused on practice.
The Centers Approach to the Enneagram is finally an embodied approach that foregrounds all 3 of your Centers. Join me and the 9 panelists who share what it’s like to live in their Dominant Center.
In this course, you will:
Learn Your Dominant Center
You might already know your Dominant Center (Head/Heart/Body) if you’ve been learning the Enneagram. But do you understand the subtle ways your overused Center drives your thoughts, emotions and interactions because it is housed in your body?
“My friend said when she met me, I felt like a head on a stick. I was so focused on figuring things out and was running on excessive mental energy which impacts connecting to others.”
(An Enneagram 7)
Learn the core function of your Dominant Center
Your Dominant Center actually has a function that evolved for your survival. This is primal stuff hardwired into our bodies based on conditioned tendencies, life experience and social and economic location. Your Dominant Center has a protective function, but it’s partial.
“I wish I knew this when I learned the Enneagram…that I feel things like a tsunami in my body. Trying to articulate how I feel is almost impossible and people think I’m holding back.”
(An Enneagram 9)
Access all 3 Centers
Your Buried Center often gets you trouble when it’s operating on automatic. Your Secondary Center can support you in bringing your Three Centers into attunement. This isn’t about perfection which most always gets you in trouble as we somatically contract when grinding towards perfection. It’s about practice. You learn practical skills for Centers awareness and opening to other centers.
“I like the term Leslie uses: ‘good enough’ alignment. I am so hard on myself when I slip into DOING as a heart type. My Pause Practice brings me home to myself throughout the day as I see WHY my attention is on others….the need to CONNECT, a fundamental human need!”
(An Enneagram 2)
Listen to a type exemplar of each of the 9 Enneagram types
Listent to 9 type exemplars who have been working on themselves through the lens of their Enneagram Centers.
“I felt like my partner was always drilling me. Doesn’t he trust me? It softened me as I listened to the panelist describe his anxiety as a kid when his parents traveled constantly. All his questions are about his need for support.”
(An Enneagram 1)
From Reactivity to Mindful Response
The Pause Practices
We become what we practice. Your muscles and tissues have memory. They carry your history. Your thinking patterns (often deeply impacted by your Enneagram type) are held in your body which is why you sometimes react in ways that aren’t in alignment with your values. Work with a weekly Pause Practice as a way of uprooting conditioned tendencies.
“I used to joke that I hated my Pause Practice of allowing myself to feel vulnerable as a leader. I don’t any more. I thought if I was transparent, people wouldn’t trust me. They actually trust me more.”
(A 3 leader)
Practice a meditation designed for each Center
We recommend you foreground the meditations so you can practice living from each center.
Watch Leslie facilitate live interactions with real people
(Leslie facilitating a 9 Panel)
“Leslie’s work with people is unlike any I’ve ever seen. It’s intuition at work and she clearly cares.”
Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or a long time student,
therapist or coach,
join Master Teacher Leslie Hershberger for a refreshing approach to
the Enneagram grounded in practice and embodiment.
“The Enneagram isn’t the first thing.
The first thing is your life.
It’s your relationships.
It’s these unprecedented times.
But it’s your tenacious Enneagram patterns impacting your ability to
sustain meaningful change.
As for me, I’m still learning.”
– Leslie Hershberger
Leslie Hershberger MA has been working with the Enneagram through The Centers Approach for over 20 years as a consultant, master teacher, facilitator, coach, spiritual guide, mentor and practitioner.
While she’s done deep dive study in the Enneagram and has written countless articles, her Enneagram expertise has come from years of “boots on the ground” work with hundreds of real people in countless settings: universities, businesses, schools, churches, non-profits, recovery communities and hospitals.
Leslie has great respect for “lineage” as she stands on the shoulders of people who have devoted their lives to a core competency in mature adult development. The core building blocks that have shaped and informed her work include:
- The Narrative Enneagram with Founders Helen Palmer and David Daniels MD
- Enneagram in Business with Ginger Lapid Bogda PhD,
- Ken Wilber’s Integral Theory,
- Master’s in inter-spiritual/contemplative theology,
- Robert Kegan’s Developmental Psychology: Theory of the Evolving Self
- Thomas Hübl’s Collective Conscious Healing
- Embodied Social Justice with Rev Angel Kyodo Williams
Leslie solidly meets the two major criteria I feel are necessary to be an excellent teacher in this field. She is a continual learner about the system and its many aspects, and she is committed to her own journey to “walk her talk.” Her work is supported by many trainings and certifications in the Enneagram and other fields including an ongoing learning community with peers. I have personally witnessed and admire her capacity to pause, reflect, and grow through difficult encounters.
I have also witnessed her incredible energy and commitment to bringing this work to the world. Leslie is an innovator of the finest degree and has made many original contributions to the field of Enneagram study. She weaves the Enneagram with Integral theory and neuroscience as well as other relevant modalities.
Leslie is a gift to the worldwide Enneagram community.
From Terry’s letter to the International Enneagram Association supporting Leslie’s accreditation.
Leslie is both warm hearted, and thoughtful in her teaching and coaching. I have witnessed her depth of knowledge, teaching skill, and awareness. I consider her a brilliant teacher and coach. Her insight into the fundamentals of their personal and spiritual development makes her teaching especially poignant. I recommend her highly.
Leslie is a master. She’s a wonderful teacher and gets in the zone with my students. She’s humorous, extremely articulate, can speak from many perspectives and creates an environment for people to show up and learn. She’s not all fluff and presentation. She has a real depth of experience and knowledge. She’s the best of her generation out there.
Leslie’s impresses me deeply because of her integrative focus and clarity. I have come to understand and admire Leslie’s very deep and very broad perspective on spiritual pursuits and practice. I have also come to know what a gifted, patient, and generous teacher she is.
I first came across Leslie via her Youtube videos on the Enneagram. What drew me to her was her compassionate, non-judgmental approach and her intelligence. She clearly knew her stuff! So I booked in for a set of four sessions. I had been blocked for several years regarding a particular project, but as Leslie astutely observed, the block was about much more than my project.
Through a process of deep listening and intuitively sensing what tools and practices might help me, she guided me in a process of being present to my experience which led to a profound internal shift.
As I continue to practice daily what she has taught me, I am happy to report that the block is dissolving little by little. As someone who had been stuck for years, this is quite remarkable. I’ve also noticed a flow-on effect in other areas of my life – more equanimity, less judgement of self and others, and a lot more self compassion. So if you’re looking to go deeper, heal old wounds, change unhelpful patterns or simply get to know yourself better, I highly recommend Leslie. She’s a wise, skilful counsellor with a great sense of humour and you will come away the richer for it.
Leslie is probably the most gifted Enneagram teacher out there. She’s excellent, dynamic, funny, has a heart and a desire to serve. She is approachable and works well with clients. She takes the Enneagram from surface level to depth, gets grounded and you can hear her compassion. As she gently guides my students with equanimity, I am incredibly impressed. I’ve never seen the Enneagram used the way she works with it.
Working with Leslie through The Centers Approach set off so many lightbulbs for me. As an Enneagram 6 I spend a lot of time in my head, but Leslie’s approach and teaching style really helped me to embody and feel my way to a greater understanding of myself and my processes. The way that the information was presented made me feel like the most loving kind of light was shone on my blindspots. Things my friends and loved ones have tried to communicate with me around my presence and behavior that I’d previously struggled to understand suddenly clicked into place and made perfect sense. I’d highly recommend this course to anyone who is ready to illuminate their Enneagram type structure and engage with life and relationships in a more grounded and present way.
An Introduction to the Enneagram: An Overview of the Diagram
The course begins with the basics of the Enneagram. We will explore each of the nine personality points and their dominant emotions and attentional styles before delving into primal, familial, cultural, and narrative influences on type. We will also touch on wings and arrows, as well as subtypes to lay a strong foundation for your understanding of and engagement with the Enneagram.
This Module Includes:
- Introduction to 9 types
- What influences our type?
- Wings & Arrows
- Bonus Lecture: Self Awareness in Love and Work
- Guided Meditation Body Scan
The Centers Approach
First of all, the Body Center does not get its full due in classic Enneagram teaching. Listen to the words. Gut. Survival. Power and control. Sounds mechanistic? Where’s the life? Do we really want to keep demonizing the body? These bodies are theground of human experience!They have an extraordinary intelligence that is constantly picking up data that surrounds us.
The Heart Center is over-reliant on Doing to shape connection which paradoxically impedes authentic connection while the Head Center resists doing as there’s so much more to think about! Let’s dive more fully into this.
We have all three centers and overuse one while burying the other. In this module, we get into the nuts and bolts of this unique way of working with the Enneagram through an overview of The Centers Approach.
This Module Includes:
- An Introduction to the Three Centers: The Three Core Emotions, The Three Centers, and Each Center’s Crucial Function For Survival
- A Three Centered Guided Meditation
- PDF with Simple Practices for Three Centered Living
Body Center (8/9/1): The Feeling Center
This Module Includes:
- An overview of the Body Center which is ground zero for your Feeling function which gives you access to your life force. It’s like a seismograph sensing data in the environment before you’re ever conscious of it.
- Overview of Type 8 The Protector and Exemplar Interview
- Overview of Type 9 The Mediator and Exemplar Interview
- Overview of Type 1 The Perfectionist and Exemplar Interview
- Informational PDF on Each Body Type
- Body Center Guided Meditation
Heart Center (2/3/4): The Doing Center
This Module Includes:
- An overview of the Heart Center which is the center of emotional intelligence which is about connection: making contact, being valued, accepted, mirrored, appreciated.
- Overview of Type 2 The Giver and Exemplar Interview
- Overview of Type 3 The Performer and Exemplar Interview
- Overview of Type 4 The Romantic and Exemplar Interview
- Video offering recommendations for being in relationship with a Heart Type
- Informational PDF of Each Heart Type
- Heart Center Guided Meditation
Head Center (5/6/7): The Perceiving Center
This Module Includes:
- An overview of the Head Center which is the center of mental intelligence focuses the attention of the mind and searches for meaning through the perceptual function.
- Overview of Type 5 The Observer and Exemplar Interview
- Overview of Type 6 The Loyal Skeptic and Exemplar Interview
- Overview of Type 7 The Epicure and Exemplar Interview
- Video offering recommendations for being in relationship with a Head Type
- Informational PDF of Each Head Type
- Head Center Guided Meditation
Overview of Course Features
- Over 4.5 Hours of Educational Videos
- PDF documents with educational resources and practices for each type
- Reflection questions for your Center
- Five Guided Meditation mp3s
- Bonus videos for those who want to go deeper in understanding the Evolutionary Function of the 9 Enneagram types along with information on the Neurobiology of the Types.