When clients share something difficult about a relationship in love or work, I sometimes ask this question” “Have you had a conversation with them?” Often, the response is “no.” It’s across the type board, although certain Enneagram types are more avoidant. ...
Types 2 and 9 both tend to reference their attention to others and have a hard time knowing what they need or want. Both tend towards (conscious) suppression and (unconscious) repression of their anger. Both are “positive reframe” types in conflict. One...
These are the Cooperators. When working on a project, it’s kind of like baseball (you have your own position, you know the rules and there are referees) Dutiful: there are structures and ways of doing things Want to take time to find out who the team is,...
Knowing your Enneagram style’s patterns gives a glimpse in what others see, but may not be saying. Sometimes, it’s hard for people to tell us the hard stuff. Or, if they do, it’s hard to be receptive to what they are saying. Below, I list common...
