The Pause in Relationship
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning The space between stimulus and response is "The Pause". Below are some...
Head Types: How Do Your Co-Workers See You?
Knowing your Enneagram style's patterns gives a glimpse in what others see, but may not be saying. Sometimes, it's hard for people to tell us the hard stuff. Or, if they do, it's hard to be receptive to what they are saying. Below, I list common feedback I hear from...
Heart Types: How Do Your Co-Workers See You?
Knowing your Enneagram patterns gives a glimpse into what others see, but may not be saying. by Leslie Hershberger Sometimes, it's hard for people to tell us the hard stuff. Or, if they do, it's hard to be receptive to what they are saying. Below, I list common...
Embrace Your Inner Contradictions
A love letter to all of you who embark upon the inner work of awareness and excavation of your own unique soul. (Be sure to read it with an Irish accent as it is from beloved teacher, John O’Donohue:) “We should allow the different sides of what is contradictory...
Body Types: How do your co-workers see you?
Knowing your Enneagram patterns gives a glimpse in what others see, but may not be saying. Sometimes, it’s hard for people to tell us the hard stuff. Or, if they do, it’s hard to be receptive to what they are saying. Below, I list common feedback I hear from people...
The Practical Power of Paradox
You're not crazy, lazy or indecisive if you feel two opposite feelings at the same time. In truth, the ability to hold polar opposite thoughts (polarities) in a paradoxical tension is a sign of mature development. It's a big shift beyond either/or and black and white...